On occasion I deliver flowers. It's good for me to be out there and not become prey to the disconnect that can happen when you remain "in the back poking the posies". Today I had the pleasure of bringing Happy Anniversary wishes to two different women. Both were excited, along with the other ladies in the offices they were sent to. Their reaction was such that it made me wonder if the senders were aware of the the great choices each had made, or did they simply get lucky (no pun intended).
Here are some lessons you can learn from today's senders when you decide to give your love flowers.
1. Make note of their favorite flower or color
"All I know is she loves gerbera daisies. What can we do with that?" Extra points are scored when you have a little inside info. Not only will she be happy because the flowers/colors are ones she likes, but she will also know that you pay attention to her tastes.
2. When having flowers delivered, go public
Not all women share this sentiment- but most love when others see the thoughtfulness of their significant other towards them. Have the flowers delivered to her office, place of work, dorm or school, if possible. Often times they have bragged on you- this is a chance to prove her right.
3. Have a budget in mind
"Price doesn't matter." Oh yes it does. Sending flowers does only half the job if you feel lousy about how much you spent. Resentment leaks like a cracked vase and soon the whole process is a mess. Let your florist know about how much you want to spend. Other than flowers that need to be special ordered from overseas, most flowers can fit into even the smallest budget. You may only be able to get a few stems of peonies, orchids or garden roses for the price you want to spend- but if they are her favorites she will appreciate your thoughtfulness. Take note of your local florist' specials that will save you $$$$. We have a Friday Special each with week; roses, lilies, tulips, a different selection each week.
4. A quick pick me up
Sometimes a single rose in her favorite color, or a bunch of an in-season flower like tulips can make a bad day instantly better. "Just because" is a great reason to give flowers. It tells her that in the midst of your crazy day you thought of her- she was a priority.
5. SURPRISE!
Remember that flowers are wonderful but it is equally as thoughtful to surprise her with something a little unusual. This past Valentines Day, while most men were sending roses and the like, a gentleman came into Laura Jane's and saw a display piece on the counter. An old rusty well bucket with curly willow branches coming into bud. "She'll LOVE that!", he pointed behind me. "I would too!", I said. I made up a price on the not for sale item and rang it up; after all how could I resist a man who's wife had the same taste. The point is- know what will tell her you think she is amazing- even if it comes in a rusty bucket.
So maybe it's not as simple as grabbing the first thing in the flower shop cooler, but a little extra thought will pay off. And remember, we are here to help you send your best!
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